If the word “divorce” brings to mind a courtroom battle, mediation may come as a relief. It is a private, out-of-court process in which you and your spouse meet with a neutral mediator to work through the issues in your divorce and reach an agreement you both control.
How the process works
Mediation usually happens over one or more sessions. The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for you. Instead, they help you identify the issues, understand your options, and negotiate terms, from parenting time and support to how property is divided.
Because you and your spouse make the decisions, the outcome tends to fit your family better than a ruling imposed by a judge. It is also usually faster and less expensive than litigation.
How to prepare
Come informed and realistic. Gather your financial documents, think clearly about your goals and priorities, and be willing to listen and compromise where it makes sense. Having your own attorney prepare and represent you helps you enter mediation with confidence.
Is mediation right for everyone?
Not always. Mediation works best when both parties can negotiate in good faith. Where there is a history of abuse or a serious imbalance of power, or when one side simply will not deal fairly, litigation may be the better path. We help you decide which route fits your situation.
Have questions about your situation?
Every family is different. A confidential consultation is the best way to get answers specific to you.